Fourth grade is a time of change. Kids change physically, academically, and socially.
I see it every year and it begins right about now; right about the time of Thanksgiving.
The physical change is always obvious. They seem to grow taller overnight, their expressions are a bit more adult-like, and they are becoming more coordinated in their movements (although that may change as their bodies grow faster and they are trying to "keep up" with it!). They will delight in challenging their physical stamina, their physical coordination, and their physical accomplishments.
Academically the change is something wondrous to behold. They have started on the path of making meaningful connections simply because now they have an arsenal of experiences that they can draw upon. They find the cross-curricular connections more easily and begin to piece the puzzle of education together...figuring out that 'subjects" exist not in isolation but rather are intertwined in many ways. They develop their life-long study habits as well as their appreciation for the unknown and the process required to uncover it. The pride they exhibit when they truly learn something becomes the reward in and of itself. Intrinsic motivation is taking root.
Socially speaking the change is one that carries uplifting highs and debilitating lows. They are looking to each other to help them establish a sense of self, a sense of belonging. The playground can be a rough place; and it is no longer a playground made of swings and see-saws. The playground is present in the classroom, the internet, the lunchroom, and on the walk to and from school. The playground roughness takes its shape in many forms; teasing, peer pressure, bullying, and acceptance/rejection. It's always been a rough place, for all of us. We know this and in that knowing we prepare our kids for it. We give them the tools they will need to weave their way through the social maze the playground has become. They are smart, the kids of today, and with us behind them, they will find their way.
Yes, Fourth Grade is a time for change...life itself is a series of change. This one, however, signals a change that will bring these young people slowly into the adult world. While this may sound sad, the fact that they are growing so quickly, it also serves as an opportunity for each of us to take some extra time to be with our kids...for despite these changes they still need us...and will for some time to come.
Mr. Casten
Nov. 4, 2011
Copyrighted material of Michael C. Casten
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